Tunde Bakare
Sep 30, 2026
Lost my scholarship and I'm a first-gen student
Needed a 3.0 to keep it. Got a 2.8 after the semester my mom was in hospital and I was driving 2 hours home every weekend. I appealed. Wrote two pages. Attached her discharge pape…
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My grades slipped while my mom was in hospital, and I lost the scholarship keeping me at university. The appeal was denied. As a first-generation student facing $11,000 a semester, I feel like I am letting everyone down.
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