Two years of a manager who made me feel stupid - Loser Story
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Kwame Asante

Kwame Asante

Sep 7, 2026

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Two years of a manager who made me feel stupid

He never yelled. That's what made it hard to explain. He'd just correct me in front of everyone in a really calm voice, rewrite my work without saying why, schedule my reviews at 4…

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Two years of quiet criticism from my manager drained my confidence until I stopped speaking in meetings. Leaving helped me recognize the harm. In a new job, I am finding my voice again and learning that it was not all my fault.

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There’s a comeback in this one. I kept a log of everything for six months, then went to HR and also started interviewing. HR did nothing, but the log helped me s…

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